did it pass you by?

i love reading blogs. i love discovering new blogs and figuring out if that person is someone who i might like in person or maybe i wouldn't cos they were too organisednormalneatloudquiet. but blogs and people don't often match. i blog so differently each day. i'm all over the place. family, friends, food, music, flowers....whatever pops into my head is what i write. somethings pop in there and don't get to this blog (cos i have other blogs). then i wonder maybe i should just drag a bit of that over here. but when i do, the silence is deafening. i suppose i'm a little bit out there occasionally (i'm okay with that fact, btw. oh well if everyone else isn't).

lately i have realised that a few certain "friends" aren't okay with some of my quirks. they don't tell me to my face, well not often. but they do imply things. i wonder if i should be offended. but mostly i am not. cos i really don't care! when i was in my early 30s and had only two boys i remember a new momfriend of mine said to me that at a certain age (she turned 50 that year), she stopped caring about what other people thought. now that doesn't mean being purposely rude or unkind, but you are who you are and people have to accept it. if they are your friends, then they probably have known you long enough to KNOW who you are, where you came from and where you want to go. my friends (online or irl) know me. know that i am a bit quirky at times. and most of them know some of my secrets.

happy weekend! happy spring!!